Life is like a game of playing cards. You cannot control what another feels of does. Just how you cannot control which card is next in a deck of cards. The only way to play the game is to shuffle.
Sometimes you just have to shuffle your cards until you get the good one that completes your hand.
We just get to keep living and shuffling our cards. Sometimes we win and sometimes we lose. But what I feel is that when we are together, we are always winning. How wonderful it is to feel this way.